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I have put together a list of the "10 new mom must-haves." If you know a brand new mom, I have a feeling she would appreciate these sweet sentiments and possibly shed a tears of gratitude (because I have done that very thing). New moms, feel free to chime in with your own ideas. These would be great to bring to a baby shower, a postpartum hospital visit, or a home visit.
1. Ask if she needs anything picked up from the store ($-$$)
If there is one thing a new mom does not have anymore, it is a spare moment. A new mom probably won't ask for help with small tasks because she doesn't want to inconvenience you. Just tell her you are out around town and are swinging by the store to pick up a few things and wondered if she needed anything. She might say no, and that's okay. The fact that you reached out and offered will mean the world to her. Maybe just bring by one of the below items if you feel like wowing your friend.
2. Starbucks gift card with a new mug ($$)
Every human can appreciate caffeine, especially a new mom running on broken hours of sleep. Fancy it up with a new mug or a bag of coffee for the house.
3. Silver bar necklace with name engraved ($$$)
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4. Gift card to her favorite clothing store ($$)
Moms really want to feel good in their new body. It takes a while for a new mom to love the skin she is in, but maybe a new shirt or new jeans will help her make the transition.
5. Victoria's secret house slippers and eye mask ($$)
New moms are going to spend a great deal of time at home for the first few weeks. Receiving fuzzy house slippers is an unexpected happy and will keep her warm when the house is cooler for baby. Eye mask will provide extra darkness so when she is asleep, she stays asleep until the baby needs her.
6. Creative journal with sharpie pens ($)
A new journal may help the new, tired mom stay focused and in the Word. It is very easy to neglect quiet times in the first few months because new mom is extremely tired and any free time she does have, she will want to spend it resting. Don't underestimate the power of a cute journal and new pens.
7. Loose leaf mother's milk tea, a bottle of honey, and a brew basket ($)
A new mom who is breast feeding will surely appreciate this thoughtful surprise. Milk supply varies will every woman, but this tea will help guarantee a little more supply than initially expected.
8. Comfy and sexy panties ($)
All a girl wants is to feel sexy after giving birth and bleeding for a month. New panties might honestly make her cry. Just make sure you get the right size so she feels like she can conquer the world.
9. Printed photos of baby for office ($)
If new mom is planning to return to work, it might be a hard transition. She may have fears about who she is leaving baby with for the day or just might not want to be at work at all. Printing out a picture or two of the sweet baby for her to take to work will provide a level of comfort only she will understand. Spice it up with a fun frame.
10. Lavender bubble bath salts with a bath pillow and candle ($)
As much as baby has cried within the first few months, a new mom probably could fill a jar with her tears. It's a rollercoaster that with stretch emotions thin. Give her an excuse to dive into the bathtub and relax with a candlelit bath.
Do you have any other ideas as to what might help a new mom feel loved and comfortable in her new skin? Comment below.
