loosing air and my sin problem

10.22.2014 | 2 comments

while i write this blog, spontaneously as all my blogs tend to be, i am sipping on my morning coffee.  i was greeted this morning with a voicemail that said i would only have to work half a day due to a water main break.  that initially sounds incredible, but it's really more of an inconvenience because now one of my classes will be ahead of others.  regardless, i should welcome this change.  after all, i do have a lot to get done.

i was walking the halls this morning as a teacher stopped me. she asked if my car was the one with all the bumper stickers and the (expired) indiana license plate. proud of my silver bullet named Stella, i boasted a "yes!"  then she delivers me the news: "you have a pretty flat tire."  then i began to question her: was it just low or was it flat-flat.  she informed me that it was just low, but it's extremely low and i need to get it looked at as soon as possible.

(i just got a call on the phone that yet another teacher has noticed that my tire is flat.)

so where am i going with my tire loosing air?  how in the world could i possibly make an analogy of a flat tire to my walk with christ?

grab your java, let's mull over this for a few.

sin, it comes in many different forms, but it all causes one thing.  sin, the very thing we don't want to do and do it anyway, causes separation from christ.  it breaks a relationship, it causes guilt, it causes us to retract from the very thing we love.  sin deflates us.  when we let sin spin its nasty web in our lives, it becomes a habitual practice. we end up driving around our lives on flat tires, bending our rims, eventually unable to drive.  air had seeped out of my tire and was ineffective for the job it was to do. i am so grateful that my coworkers pointed out the flaw in my car. do i rejoice when someone points out the sin in my life? am i quick to thank them? or am i quick to jump on them providing excuses as to why i am sinning? am i quick to form a rebuttal comparing my sin to theirs?
"jesus answered them, 'truly truly i say to you, everyone who practices sin is a slave to sin. the slave does not remain in the house forever, the son remains forever.  so if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed'." -john 8:34-36
how foolish i would have looked had i told my coworker that her tires were flatter than mine, that she needed to mind her own business, that my tires don't concern her.  but don't we all do this with sin in our own lives?
Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. -philippians 2:3-4
i am at work, unable to leave.  i need to fix my tire but i am so helpless here at work.  i have to fix this sin problem, but fixing sin isn't a matter of changing behavior so you look the part.  every 20-something eventually grows up and puts their childish, wild days behind them.

so do i just take off work and go fix it myself?  do i wait, pray that everything pans out?  do i just hope that the tire survives with the remaining air?  do i just leave it as it, pretend like it never happened? i mean, after all, i CAN drive on it.  i got to work didn't i!?

fix.  i need a fix, a cure. help.

we've been down this road before.  you let a problem go without resolve and it gets worse.  sickness, bad relationships, flat tire, jobs.......sin.

fix.  i need a fix, a cure. help.

this is where my husband comes to the rescue in my tire situation.  mark comes to the school on wednesday's to help lead an FCA men's leadership group.  i told him what was going on with my car, even though i couldn't see my tire for what it really was.  i asked him to help me.  i asked him to pay to put more air in my tires. i was really helpless.  in a phase of waiting for mark to tell me my car was going to be okay. without hesitation mark, filled my tires.

so what about this sin problem?  how can i fix this sin problem that has plagued me for nearly 25 years?
...if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth one confesses and is saved." -romans 10:9-10
i tell jesus what is going on in my life, even though i can't really see my sin for what it really is.  i ask jesus to help me.  i ask jesus to pay the price for my sin.  and without hesitation, jesus says, i have already done so.  jesus paid the price to fix my sin when he died on the cross and rose victoriously over death.  confessing to jesus that he is lord, believing in jesus, trusting that jesus is your heart mechanic is the only way to fix this sin problem.  it was only when i acknowledged that air was leaking from my tires that anything could be done about it.  have you acknowledged your sin before jesus?  jesus will fill you, though air will continually leak out of my tires, though we will continue to sin on a daily basis, when you surrender you life to jesus christ, your past, present, and future sins have been paid for. confess to jesus, let him fill you.

romans 6 is my favorite chapter in the bible.
What shall we say then? Are we to continue in sin that grace may abound? By no means! How can we who died to sin still live in it? Do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death?  We were buried therefore with him by baptism into death, in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might walk in newness of life.For if we have been united with him in a death like his, we shall certainly be united with him in a resurrection like his. We know that our old self was crucified with him in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin. For one who has died has been set free from sin. Now if we have died with Christ, we believe that we will also live with him. We know that Christ, being raised from the dead, will never die again; death no longer has dominion over him. For the death he died he died to sin, once for all, but the life he lives he lives to God. So you also must consider yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus.Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, to make you obey its passions. Do not present your members to sin as instruments for unrighteousness, but present yourselves to God as those who have been brought from death to life, and your members to God as instruments for righteousness. For sin will have no dominion over you, since you are not under law but under grace.What then? Are we to sin because we are not under law but under grace? By no means! Do you not know that if you present yourselves to anyone as obedient slaves, you are slaves of the one whom you obey, either of sin, which leads to death, or of obedience, which leads to righteousness? But thanks be to God, that you who were once slaves of sin have become obedient from the heart to the standard of teaching to which you were committed, and, having been set free from sin, have become slaves of righteousness. I am speaking in human terms, because of your natural limitations. For just as you once presented your members as slaves to impurity and to lawlessness leading to more lawlessness, so now present your members as slaves to righteousness leading to sanctification.For when you were slaves of sin, you were free in regard to righteousness.  But what fruit were you getting at that time from the things of which you are now ashamed? For the end of those things is death. But now that you have been set free from sin and have become slaves of God, the fruit you get leads to sanctification and its end, eternal life. For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

have you surrendered control of your "loosing air" situation to jesus?
have you acknowledged your need for him to rescue you?
are you doing anything about the sin that someone has pointed out in your life?
are you being the friend and lovingly confronting someone about a sin you see destroying their life?
do you realize that without jesus, overcoming sin is impossible?
do you realize that sin is prohibiting you from being who God desires you to be and prohibiting you from doing what christ has called you to do?

stop leaking, ask jesus fill you.

i need your anonymous input!

10.16.2014 | No comments

remember that controversial blog i wrote about women and how they need to be a "woman worth pursuing" and not play games with men who need to be built up?  if you have no idea what i am talking about, sit back and read this original post: "a woman worth pursuing"

well, it's finally time that i write a blog that humbly counters that point of view.  i am going to write a post called: "the man who pursues"

i need YOUR input, whether you are a man or woman.

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GUEST POST ON SAGE

10.15.2014 | No comments

i am so excited to announce that i have a guest post on sage.  my friend cassie has a beautiful heart and has asked me and about 15 other women to link up in creating a marriage series called "equally yoked"

please check out her blog each week for a new post.

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first 2 fruits of the spirit as foreigners

10.14.2014 | 3 comments

let me first start this post by saying i love storms.  when it seems like a storm will completely derail your plans, you in fact get to make new plans and new adventures.  that is why i get to write this post right now.  last night in starkville we had a huge storm with potential for tornadoes.  wind gusts tore trees down and knocked out power lines.  this morning, it was found out that there was no power at my work, so i did not have to teach today.  one day's inconvenience can be other day's production.  i'm so blessed for today.  a minute to slow back down, unwind, and smile.  grab your coffee.  let's dig into God's word together.

what sets a christ-follower a part from the world?  because after all we are called aliens and strangers to this world. (ephesians 2:19 and 1 peter 2:11) we are exiles and foreigners.  a christ-follower is not a citizen of this world, but a citizen of heaven.  an ambassador.  how are ambassadors recognized?

this was the question asked by one of the high school students at fellowship of christian athletes a few weeks ago.  this got me thinking, how am i different and called to live differently than the rest of the world? can the world tell that the holy spirit lives inside of me by the fruit i am producing?

this brings me to the fruits of the spirit mentioned in galatians 5: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.  the holy spirit dwells inside of me now that i have surrendered my life to christ.  i have the same power that rose jesus from the grave inside of me because i am an ambassador for christ.  think about that for a second.  if you are a christ-follower, you have that very same power in you! we have all the freedom and power in the world to produce 1000 fold the very fruits that the spirit has given us.

now before you jump on my case saying that you don't have to be a christ-follower to display these traits, i encourage you to read john 10:10.
the thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy.  i came that they may have life and have it abundantly.  

so yes, someone who has chosen not to walk in the ways of the lord can definitely display these traits, but there is no hope of walking in the ever-satisfying fullness of jesus christ.

love:
mark 12:31 says that we are to love our neighbor as ourself and that there is no other commandment greater than this.  if we could keep this commandment, there would be no need for any other rule in the world.; however, we are terrible at loving anyone (including ourselves).  i am so comforted that jesus has given us a beautiful example of love, he laid his life down for us on the cross.  1 john 4:7 says that love comes from God. 1 john 3:16-18 says
"this is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. and we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.  if anyone has material possessions and sees his brother in need but has no pity on him, how can the love of God be in him?  dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth."
so in our every day actions- the way we treat people, the way we serve others, the words we say, the way we love each other in a way 1 corinthians 13 depicts-people will see that this type of christ-like love is different than the fleeting love that the world offers.
love is patient, love is kind. it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  it is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.  love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.  love never fails. but where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
1 corinthians 13 love is a difficult love to show, but it is possible because, as a christ-follower, i have the holy spirit living who directs and leads me.  

joy:
the dictionary defines joy as "a state of happiness of felicity" but the bible seems to define joy in a similar, yet different manner.  biblical joy does not flee regardless of situations.  james (1:2-3) tells us to consider it joy when we go through trials!? the author of hebrews (12:2) tells us that it was the joy of jesus to die on the cross for us!?  how can this be?  joy is something that is to fill us regardless of situations, but as i look around, there is a lot of unhappiness.
well, that's where biblical joy and happiness diverge.  happiness is an emotion set be circumstances.  i am happy because i got a cat, i am happy because i got a raise, i am happy because my husband liked my food.
the joy of the lord comes upon us when we trust in jesus (romans 15:13).  i love the way peter states in his first book.
1 peter 1:8-9
"though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy,  for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your souls."
proverbs 10:28 says that
the prospect of the righteous is joy, but the hopes of the wicked come to nothing.
in pursing christ, we get an unexplainable joy that stays with us no matter what happens each day

i want to finish the rest of the fruits of the spirit soon.  remember, as a christ-follower, the love you display to the people around you and the joy you express regardless of the highs and lows of life can be used to point people to the One who gave you life.  you are a foreigner here, you are not to look like the world.  be set apart, in action and in truth.